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Amy Letter's avatar

Americans are huggers. Americans like big breakfasts. Americans smile a lot. Everywhere you go in America there are TVs. I just hosted some family from overseas for a week, so we've been talking a lot about "how Americans are." A public toilet that to me was marginal at best to them was astonishingly clean. We have powerful restroom taboos that are hard for outsiders to trust: they want floor to ceiling privacy; we know no one would peek but a small child who would then be scolded furiously. A visit to the Bass Pro Shop was "the most American thing" they'd "ever seen" -- so much flannel, BB guns piled on shelves like board games. We're highly tolerant of driving long distances and shockingly intolerant of sharing tight spaces. We are childishly unironic about our fun: we want to see things blow up and crash and fall down and go fast. We talk about the past like we talk about the bathroom: our speech is full of taboos. What version of "American History" will we use? It depends on a subtle verbal dance that determines the conversational compact. Do we dare disturb another's commonplaces? Probably not: we will nod politely and change the subject. What do we agree on? People are nuts. We don't agree on which people. Don't mention that part. Now let's go watch the pumpkin drop. They filled half the pumpkins with colored flour to make great plumes of red white and blue smoke. Boom, baby.

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Joshua Doležal's avatar

I remember the poet Robert Pinsky saying once, during a reading at Bread Loaf, that American identity is like jazz. We're constantly improvising as we go. That felt right at the time (the early 00s), when I suppose the diversity myth was still alive. But, as you say, that seat-of-the-pants culture isn't reassuring when people lose faith in basic institutions, like public schools. I might need to write about this for next week: one out of every ten students is now homeschooled (and the trend is growing). That's a pretty basic expression of your thesis here.

Most other cultures are rooted in ethnic identities. Is there another immigrant country comparable to the U.S.? Being Czech or Egyptian is a racial and national signifier. And so the myths have been more important than ever in creating shared culture. The problem is that the myths are so transparently false, that they keep getting punctured. And I see no reason to prop up propaganda. I wonder how many immigrants, who earn their citizenship the hard way, feel that they've been baited and switched the more they learn about national history. Because the citizenship curriculum is steeped in myth, yes?

Curious to hear what others have to say.

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