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Mike Hammer's avatar

I only found out recently that Molly is her daughter.

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Laura Durnell ♿️ ♀️'s avatar

Her grandfather is Jonathan Fast.

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Mike Hammer's avatar

Talk about coming from good stock.

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Susanna Namuli's avatar

I think it is wonderful that so many different parts worked out together and you have been able to live a life that you believe truly expresses who you are.

I think too, of the 'infrastructure' that allowed all of it to happen.

That there was a library that you could go to. That in literacy you have a medium to access stories and also to create them. And more infrastructure; publishing, both traditional and digital, that your creations (like this essay), are able to get to all of us.

I like the idea of freedom/courage/permission even? to be who one truly is.

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Pope Buck I's avatar

"Fear of Flying" blew my mind when I encountered it the summer after my freshman year in college. But "How to Save Your Own Life" is my favorite - highly recommended for anyone working up the courage to make a change in their life!

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Rosalyn's avatar

I enjoyed this and I’m excited to check out Jong’s work…

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Laura Durnell ♿️ ♀️'s avatar

Thank you. I appreciate you, Rosalyn. Start with her poetry and Fear of Flying. If you enjoy 18th century English literature, I think you would enjoy Fanny.

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Frank Dent's avatar

Pat Sajak had a late-night talk show? Well good on him. Those shows very often had writers as guests. Before the Internet, before YouTube, before streaming, seeing an author interviewed by Dick Cavett, or Tom Snyder, or William F. Buckley was for many of us the first (and maybe only) chance we ever got to hear an author’s actual voice. Even if often it came across as an unhip interviewer ingratiating himself (always a he), maybe so something of his hip guest would rub off (look up on YouTube the clip of Steve Allen at the piano tickling the ivories as Jack Kerouac reads aloud from On the Road).

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Laura Durnell ♿️ ♀️'s avatar

Indeed he did. I've seen the Steve Allen episode with Kerouac. I miss those days. We desperately need writers on late night chat shows again.

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Frank Dent's avatar

I suppose back in the day there was a cachet to having writers on late-night talk shows, and that cachet is now gone, other than maybe for celebrities who have written books.

The old Tavis Smiley show on PBS, although not a late-night show per se, regularly featured writers. When Gregory Pardlo won the poetry Pulitzer, he appeared on Smiley’s show. I could see he had on a gray T-shirt under his collared shirt, which contrasted nicely with Smiley’s impeccable suit. I remember thinking, “Now that’s a poet.”

Incidentally, this is the poem Pardlo read:

https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/54800/written-by-himself

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Holly Starley's avatar

Thank you, Laura, for introducing me to Erika Jong and to Jeffrey Streeter for introducing me to you. May we have something to say continue to have the “courage to live like a wound that never heals.” Thank you for sharing your fearlessness.

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Laura Durnell ♿️ ♀️'s avatar

Oh my gosh, thank you. Her daughter Molly Jong-Fast wrote the preface for the 50th anniversary edition of FEAR OF FLYING, which turned 50 last year. Her poetry is exquisite.

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<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

I think Jeffrey Streeter says it best: a love song to Erica Jong. I read _Fear of Flying_ when it first came out in paperback, the copy on my book shelves along with some 3,000 other books. She taught me how writers must take risks to get to the heart of the matter.

This essay is so thorough, detailed and well annotated that we who own this site (me, Joshua and Sam) are honored to have you here, Laura. Thank you.

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Laura Durnell ♿️ ♀️'s avatar

Thank you so much, Mary. I am overwhelmed by the response to it so far.

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<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

I know. Isn’t that grand!

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Laura Durnell ♿️ ♀️'s avatar

It was an honor to wrote for INNER LIFE. Thank you for reaching out to and connecting with me, Mary.

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Joshua Doležal's avatar

Thank you, Laura. Your discussion of Jong and Roth is especially revealing. I've never read Fear of Flying, but it's now on my list. I have been thinking about these things for my daughters since Roe v Wade was overturned, how fundamental sexual freedom is to the pursuit of happiness. Everyone deserves that chance at self-discovery.

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Laura Durnell ♿️ ♀️'s avatar

Hi, Josh. Thank you so much. I finally started watching POOR THINGS last night (didn't see it in the theater because now you have to take out a second mortgage for dinner and a film), and I immediately thought how Stone won an Oscar for her role and Jong has been vilified and diminished for simply addressing women's sexuality in her work. Fear of Flying is still my favorite, but FANNY I believe is Jong's best novel. Her poetry should be checked out too.

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Joshua Doležal's avatar

I'll enjoy discovering Jong's work!

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Laura Durnell ♿️ ♀️'s avatar

Charlotte Templin wrote FEMINISM AND THE POLITICS OF LITERARY REPUTATION: THE EXAMPLE OF ERICA JONG back in the 1990s. She also published a collection of interviews with Jong. If you are interested, I recommend them.

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Laura Durnell ♿️ ♀️'s avatar

Chicago's Studs Turkel had her on his WFMT show a couple of times. If you want to take a listen, his archive is available online.

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Jeffrey Streeter's avatar

What a glorious love song to the work of Erica Jong! And such a fascinating account of how she influenced you. Such a marvellous post. Thank you!

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Laura Durnell ♿️ ♀️'s avatar

Thank you so much, Jeffrey.

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